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- Pehea ka pilina ma waena o ka pōpoki a me ke kanaka?
- Pehea nā pōpoki e koho ai i kā lākou mau hoa
- Ehia mau haku o ka pōpoki?
- He aha kāu e hana ai e like ai kāu pōpoki me ʻoe?
Ua lohe paha ʻoe ua koho nā pōpoki iā mākou, ʻaʻole ma kahi ʻē aʻe. Maliʻa manaʻo paha ʻoe ʻaʻole pololei kēia, ʻoiai ʻo ʻoe ka mea nāna i koho e hoʻokipa i kāu pōpoki i kou home. Eia nō naʻe, pono mākou e haʻi iā ʻoe ʻaʻole hewa iki kēia ʻōlelo kaulana. He naʻauao nā pōpoki, he holoholona kūʻokoʻa, no laila mai noʻonoʻo lākou e koi lākou e noho pū me ʻoe inā ʻaʻole lākou ʻoluʻolu me ia.
Inā ʻoe e haʻohaʻo nei inā koho nā pōpoki i nā mea nona lākou, Paipai mākou iā ʻoe e heluhelu i kēia ʻatikala PeritoAnimal a mākou e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe pehea e koho ai kēia mau holoholona i kahi a pehea lākou e makemake ai e noho.
Pehea ka pilina ma waena o ka pōpoki a me ke kanaka?
He mea nui loa e hoʻomaopopo i kēia kiko, e like me ʻaʻohe ona pōpoki. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o ka mea ʻona e hōʻike i ka ʻona ʻana i kekahi mea a me nā pōpoki, maopopo leʻa, he mea ola me mākou e noho nei, ka mea ʻike ʻole iā lākou iho "no kekahi". No laila, ʻaʻohe o lākou kuleana e noho pū me mākou. Eia nō naʻe, eia nā holoholona kaiāulu e pono e hele pū me lākou e ʻoluʻolu a palekana hoʻi. No kēia kumu, kēia mau holoholona koho hoa e noho pū. Koho nā pōpoki i kumu aʻo, alakaʻi, kanaka a mau mea paha e like me nā kūmole e ukali ai, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he kumu. Mai ko mākou manaʻo, hiki ke kāhea iā mākou iho he mau ʻona, no ka mea ʻo ka hoʻokipa ʻana i ka pōpoki ke kuleana o ke kānāwai, akā he kūʻē kūʻē i ke kāhea ʻana i kahi holoholona i kahi mea, no ka mea he kumuhana ia me kona ʻano ponoʻī a me nā kumu.
Ma ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kahi manu ʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka home a me nā lālā o kona ʻohana e hele aku e ʻike i kahi kūlana maikaʻi nona. Maopopo kēlā, ʻaʻole koho mākou i ka mea e pili ai? Ke loaʻa ʻole kahi pilina hoʻokō me kekahi, pale wale mākou i ka hoʻopili ʻana i kēlā kanaka (i ka hiki loa).
Pehea nā pōpoki e koho ai i kā lākou mau hoa
I kēia manawa, ke kānalua nei paha ʻoe i kāu hana pono me kāu hoa manu, i laki e makemake ʻo ia e noho pū me ʻoe. ʻO ka wehewehe no kēia, no ka mea, mahalo iā ʻoe, ke kō ʻia nei ke ola o kāu pōpoki, no laila ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e haʻalele ʻoiai ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia.
Ma mua o nā mea āpau, ʻo ʻoe ka mea e kū i kāu pono ponoʻī, e like me ka papaʻai kūpono. Inā ʻole, ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻē no ia e noho ma ka hale o ka hoalauna, inā ʻaʻohe meaʻai o ka hale a hānai ka hoalauna iā ia. No laila, pili ia iā ʻoe i ka wā e hānai ai, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike pehea e alualu ai, kahi mea maʻamau me nā pōpoki kūloko ʻaʻohe pilikia a no laila ʻaʻole pono e "hana i kahi ola".
No laila mahalo iā ʻoe, He kūlana kūpono kāna, āna i manaʻo ai i kāna panalāʻau. Noho ʻo ia i kahi wahi palekana, hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai nā hoʻoweliweli waho, a he wahi maʻemaʻe hoʻi e hoʻomaha iā ia iho (ʻo ka maʻamau kāna pahu one), kahi hoʻomaha, a pēlā aku.
Eia kekahi, maʻamau ke hoʻokō ʻia nei kāu mau pono kaiaulu. a, ʻoiai he kūʻokoʻa, hauʻoli nā pōpoki i ka hoʻolilo manawa ʻana i ka ʻoihana, me nā pōpoki ʻē aʻe, a i ʻole me mākou. No kēia kumu, ʻo nā lālā ʻokoʻa o ka ʻohana he ʻāpana o kāna hui, a hana kēia i kahi ʻano o ka noho ʻana a me ka palekana, ʻoiai ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia ua pale ʻia. He mea nui e hoʻokūpaʻa i ka, i ka hihia o ka hoʻokipa ʻana i kahi lālā o ka ʻohana hou (kahi pōpoki ʻē aʻe, ʻīlio, keiki ...), he mea maʻamau kēia hoʻololi ʻana e hoʻoulu i ke koʻikoʻi ma ka pōpoki, ʻoiai he mea ma waho o kāu ʻohana a, no laila, i ka mua hiki iā ia ke ʻike iā lākou he ʻenemi inā ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻike a holomua iā lākou.
ʻO nā kumu i luna ka mea hoʻoholo pinepine i ka wā e koho ai nā pōpoki i kā lākou "mau mea nona". "Nā haku" i nā huaʻōlelo no ka mea, e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka mea pono e ʻōlelo he hoa. I kēia manawa, ua ʻike paha ʻoe i kēlā makemake kāu pōpoki e hoʻonui i ka manawa me kekahi poʻe. ʻO kēia no ka makemake o nā pōpoki i ka poʻe ʻike pehea e launa pū me lākou. E nānā i ka mea e hoʻohālikelike ai iā lākou:
- ʻIke lākou i ka pili iā ia, e pili ana i kāna palena. Kū kokoke nā pōpoki i ka poʻe ʻaʻole "hoʻopī nui iā lākou." ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻike kēia poʻe i ka wā e noi nei ka pōpoki iā lākou e kū (mai ka petting ʻana, no ka laʻana), kahi mea nui i hiki iā ia ke mahalo a hilinaʻi iā ʻoe.
- E hoʻohui i kou alo me kahi mea maikaʻi. ʻIke ka pōpoki i nā lālā o ka ʻohana e lawe iā lākou i nā mea maikaʻi loa. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hoʻolilo lākou i ka manawa e pāʻani me ia (ke makemake ka pōpoki e pāʻani) a i ʻole ʻo ia ka mea e hānai iā ia.
- pale i ka hoʻopaʻi. Hiki iā mākou ke lilo i ke ahonui pinepine ke hoʻāʻo mākou e ola i ka launa me kahi pipi. ʻO ʻoe kēia pono ʻole e hōʻino holoholona, ʻoiai nona, hoʻonāukiuki kino a i ʻole ka ʻuā e hōʻole ʻole ʻia a hana i ka makaʻu. ʻIke nui nā pōpoki i kēia mau hanana a lilo i aloof ke hele i loko o kēia mau ʻike maikaʻi ʻole (me ka hoʻoulu ʻana iā lākou i ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole). No kēia kumu, paipai mau mākou i nā hana i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pilina, e like me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana a i ʻole nā hana hou e ʻike ai he kūpono ʻole, e like me ka ʻānai ʻana i nā lako i ka hale.
Ehia mau haku o ka pōpoki?
ʻAʻohe. E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai ma mua, ʻaʻohe ona a me nā haku o nā pōpoki, he mau hoa aloha kā lākou a lākou e kaʻana like ai i ko lākou ola. ʻO kēlā i ʻōlelo, ua hoʻopuka hou mākou i ka nīnau i: ehia mau alakaʻi a i ʻehia paha ka poʻe "punahele" a ka pōpoki? Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā "punahele" ma ke ʻano he poʻe ʻāpana o kāu ʻaoʻao kaiāulu pili loa. I kēia hihia, ʻoi aku paha i nā pōpoki nā mea punahele a kanaka ʻē aʻe paha, no laila ʻaʻole pono lākou e ukali a hōʻike i ko lākou aloha i hoʻokahi kanaka. E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, ʻo ka mea nui ka hoʻopaʻa paʻa i hoʻokumu ʻia me ka pōpoki, ke ala āu e pili ai a noho pū me ia. Inā manaʻo ka pōpoki palekana, pale ʻia a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi, hiki ke loaʻa ma mua o hoʻokahi hoa.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ua ʻike ʻoe i ka makemake o kāu pōpoki i kekahi kanaka ma mua o kekahi, mai hoʻokaʻulua e nānā i kēia ʻatikala ʻē aʻe: No ke aha i makemake ai nā pōpoki i kekahi poʻe?
He aha kāu e hana ai e like ai kāu pōpoki me ʻoe?
Inā noho ʻoe me ka pōpoki a ua ʻike ʻoe ke holo aku nei mai ou aku, hiki paha iā ia ke makemake e noho i kou hale no ka mea ua uhi ʻia nā pono o ke kino (ʻai, wai ...), akā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ke e launa pū ʻoe me ia. ʻO ka mea mua, mai hoʻoluliluli, pono mākou āpau e aʻo! A e noʻonoʻo pono i kēlā me kēia manu i kāna mau quirks ponoʻī a me nā ala o ka launa pū ʻana me nā kānaka. No kēia kumu, ʻo ka makemake e maopopo i kāu pōpoki kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi ia no ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makemake o kāu pōpoki iā ʻoe.
Hiki pinepine i nā pōpoki skittish me mākou no ka mea aloha nui mākou: makemake mākou e hānai iā lākou ke makemake lākou e noho kaʻawale, makemake mākou e pāʻani me lākou ke mālie lākou ... he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ke kino o ka pōpoki e ʻike ke kau nei lākou i kā lākou palena i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mahalo iā lākou. Inā ʻole, kānalua paha ka pōpoki iā ʻoe a huhū paha ʻoe a hōʻeha iā ʻoe inā ʻoe e hōʻino nui iā ia.
E noʻonoʻo pono ʻoe i kēlā kū hoʻokahi kēlā me kēia a no laila hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi pōpoki mālie a aloha hoʻi, akā ikaika a kūʻokoʻa hoʻi kāu, no laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe i nā hōʻike he nui o ke aloha. Ke ʻike nei i ke ala kūpono kūpono e launa pū me kāu pōpoki e kōkua iā ia e pili maʻalahi iā ʻoe. Maliʻa paha he leʻaleʻa pāʻani ʻo ia a leʻaleʻa i ka pāʻani ʻana me ʻoe, a i ʻole ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe he pōpoki mālie loa ʻo ia makemake ʻole a makemake ʻole e ʻike i nā mea pāʻani āu e hōʻike aku ai iā ia.
Eia kekahi, e hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e lilo i mea mua e hoʻomaka ai i nā pilina. Makemake i nā manawa ke hoʻokokoke aku kāu pipi iā ʻoe, mai kēia mau manawa makemake ʻo ia e hoʻolilo manawa me ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke uku iā ia me kahi makana, e like me nā meaʻai māmā a malt paha, no laila e ʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makana maoli kekahi.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, inā ʻoe e noho pū me nā poʻe hou aku ma ka home a ʻike i ka ʻoluʻolu o kāu pōpoki me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, e hoʻāʻo e nānā pehea ka pili o kēlā kanaka iā ia a nīnau iā ia no kekahi ʻōlelo aʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kēia ala hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i kāu pōpoki!
I ka pōkole, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea a kāu hoa e makemake ai a i ka wā e hoʻokokoke aku ai iā lākou e lilo ia i mea koʻikoʻi i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi pilina pili pū me lākou. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike hou e pili ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou pilina me kāu pōpoki, kono mākou iā ʻoe e heluhelu i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he 5 e loaʻa ai ka hilinaʻi o ka pōpoki a i ʻole nānā i kēia wikiō aʻe.